The talk

When Cole got home last night , Jeff and I had a very adult conversation with him. I told him how it stresses me out waiting to see if he was coming home. I can't sleep unless I know he is safe..So we put the ball in his court. We either set a curphew , or he must keep me posted on his activities, or he must find his own place. The reason for keeping us posted is because what if something did happen and we needed him. How would we know where to look. Like I said, when he left saturday morning at 10:30 I had no contact with him until I sent him a text at 2 sunday morning. Thats just rude to me in my eyes anyway. So this weekend we will be out of town so he obviously won't have a curphew and once I talk to him when he gets off work I wont talk to him again till the next night.. We have in the past talked about him getting his own place because when we sell the house he won't be moving with us right away. So I don't know what he will do. I know he's trying to save up his money to buy a new truck, so I don't know if he will move out right now. I never want my boys to feel like they can't live with me. When I went to live with my dad at 16 (first mistake of my life) my mom was so hurt that she said I could never come back. So when living at my dad's was nightmare, I ran away and moved in with Doug. If I could have moved back in with my mom I think I would have been better off. So as long as my boys are working hard or going to school they will always have a home with me. Now if they want to be bumbs they can go live in a tent at the lake. Cause I will not support them. I believe when the time is right they both will want there own space and then move out. Jeff didn't even move out of his mom's house untill we got married. He worked out of town alot and stayed in hotels, but he never had his own place.

Brendy called and said the people from Monday morning really liked the house , but only could go FHA.. Then why the hell did they even bother, cause we are not going FHA. Not only would our house not pass FHA , but we are barely going to walk away with enough money to move on I am sure as heck not paying $1200 towards buyers closings. Brendy was pretty upset that there realitor even bothered with this house. She then told me a man called her friday looking to buy a house for his 3 college girls. He seems interested and when he gets back to town she will show it to him.
Someone buy our house already!!!!!!!