Something in the water...

Laura , when yall come to town make sure Matt doesn't drink anything made with San Angelo water.. Let me explain..

Jeff and I have issues

Tia and David have issues

and now Rondi and my brother are having issues

From what Rondi and I gather we are experiencing the same sex problems in our marriage.. It really sucks!!!

I've talked to my mom about my problems in the bedroom (yes we are that close) and I have tried everything she has suggested except the watching a porn part because my kid is always home..and honstley I have never been into porn, seems to fake to me, haa because it is!!  oh look at me being funny this morning!!!LoL

Okay moving on, I hope everyone has a great day.. Jeff will be home around 10 this morning he only had 5 hours left to work . Then he is off Monday and Tuesday.. I think Cole is taking us out to eat today.. It has been a month yesterday since we have eaten out!!  Saved on the pocket book , but didn't make a dam difference in my weight..

A good night

Jeff was able to fix our a/c last night.. Wednesday he got home at 4:30 amd tore into it, getting all the motor numbers .. Yesterday I called around to locate the motor.. Found one , he got home late , but still fixed the a/c.. Going two nights without a/c was miserable.. I slept so good last night I guess for making up for the loss of sleep those two hot nights.. I sleep for 9 and half hours.. I feel really good this morning..
I haven't exercised since Tuesday because of the a/c.. I know excuses, but it was f*cking hot in this house... I will exercise today then go to the store to pick up just a few things..

Hope everyone has a great weekend..

HOT!!

okay the a/c in our house has completly gone out.. No a/c until Jeff is off work . That won't be until Monday..We were stupid to not have just replaced the motor on his last days off instead of just fixing it to get by.. Now we are screwed for 6 more days... Hopefully the rain will come and cool things off..Right now its not too bad in the house.. I opened a few windows and got the fans going, but with it suppose to be in the 90s again today I know it will get hot in the house..

I went to download Jordan's school yesterday and one part wouldn't download.. telling me something needed to be done, but I don't speak computer talk so Jeff will have to do it..Looks like Jordan is still on summer break.. When I sit down and do his work schedule I'm going to only do 8 months instead of the 10 I normaly do.. This will increase his day to day work load.. If he struggles I will go back to 10, but I need to at least try it..

Thats it for me. Hope everyone is doing well..

Not too bad

Update on my bad things in 3's


A/C working right again for now, so no new motor at this time..

Jeff fixed his truck and it only cost us $160 .. so not bad

Washing machine part cost $135, we are undecided if we want to just buy a cheap new one or the part. We went to Kuntz  to look at there scratch and dent stuff. They had a new one that was beat all to shit for $279.. I do not want one beat all to shit since its in my kitchen.It's bad enough that my appliances don't match anymore.  .He said they were getting some more this Tuesday to come back then or Wednesday...I will go and check it out. If there is one that is cheap enough we might go ahead and just get a new one..

Everything else has been going really well..I ordered Jordan's school on Friday , it should be here Tuesday or Wednesday.. I'm going to increase his school load this year.. If he struggles I will back off, but I want to at least make him try.. He took his xbox apart last night and fixed the laser on it.. I'm so proud of him.. He went on the internet and found out how to fix the problem and did it..

Hope everyone has a great day.

Bad things in 3's

Well that saying has hit our home.. First my washing machine timer is going out.. Today I will call the parts store and see if they have the part.. This is the second time for it to go out.. The first time they didn't carry the orginal part so we had to get some kind of universal one.. It worked just not like the orginal..You had to leave the nob pushed in the whole time instead of the push , pull method.. Yes my washer is old.. We figured it up yesterday and its 13 or 14 years old.. It has been repaired 3 times before for things.. Jeff wants to just get a new cheap one.. I don't want to spend the money..

Next thing to go wrong , Jeff's driver side wheel bearings are going out.. So he has to work on his truck on his next days off. Which will be tomorrow and Monday.. Don't know how much thats going to cost us, but it has to be fixed he could be driving and his wheel could fall off.  Not Good..

And now last but not least our air conditioner motor is going out.. So until Jeff can replace the motor we have to leave the switch on the ON button instead of the Auto button.. This means that the fan is always running, but the compresser kicks on and off.. Say hello to an expensive electric bill..The good news about this is at least Jeff knows how to fix it and we don't have to call an A/C man..

So Jeff will have plenty to do on his days off..Thank God he is a man of many talents!!

I am so pissed off at myself.. I paid bills yesterday, and I always pay online.. Well my insurance payment for some odd reason wouldn't go through , it said to try again later.. So instead of waiting later I went ahead and mailed them a check, cause I thought I might forget to pay them if I don't do it now.. Well lesson learned next time I will wait till later.. Last night I got an email from them that my payment had been posted.. Well since the bill just went out in the mail , I knew it had to have been from when I tried to pay it online.. Sure enough my bank accout shows that the payment did go through.. So now I have paid them twice this month.. Thats bad since I just dished out for Jordan's school , we really needed that money for all the stuff that needs to be fixed.. The good news is now I don't have to worry about being late for next month.. Hopefully they will just apply my mailed payment to October payment..

As for my personel life , Jeff and I have gotten along pretty good since our talk.. He has stopped listening to politics and that has helped him to not be so angry.. At least he is trying..

Hope everyone is doing good.. I miss yall

Virus

We have some stupid virus on our computer. Jeff has ran the virus scan and it  isn't showing up, but we know we have one.. No matter what sight were on there is an advertisment playing. No visiul just sound.. We have to keep the speakers off because it is very annoying..

Nothing is going on here . Cole had to go out of town for work. This is his first time to do that.. He will be home Wednesday night..

I was thinking about buying that insanity work out, but decided against spending all that money..

Well hope everyone has a great day..

Weekend

Hope everyone has a good weekend.. Sorry we can't make it to the bday party.. Laura hope yall have a nice visit with everyone..

Love the rain

I'm loving this slow rainy morning.. The dogs not so much :)   

Nothing is going on so I haven't blogged.

Have not exercised all week. First my shoulder pain , then my monthly visitor. I really didn't eat wise yesterday either so I'm retaining water. I can feel it in my feet and fingers.. I had pizza..

I know its not cold enough , but if it stays rainy today I think I will make potatoe soup for lupper.. yes lupper that is my made up word for lunch and dinner. I usually cook around 1:30 so we eat between 2-3 and then I don't eat again, unless its a snack or cereal..

I'm trying a new way of thinking.. key word trying.. I'm 41 and I have weighed the same weight for over two years now, no matter what I have done its always within a 5 pound weight. I think my body and fat are best friends and I'm tired of worring about losing that 20 pounds I so despertly want to lose.. So now I am going to focus my exercising and eating right for health issues not weight loss..Maybe if I change the way I think , I will actually like the way I look.. I know I'm not obesse, my pants size tells me that.. I'm pleased with what size pants I wear when I see the number its just when I look in the mirror or get on that scale, then I see the fat person.. Anyway we will see..

Hope everyone is doing well..

okay

Well I had my talk with Jeff and it went well. A lot better than what I really expected. He seemed to be shocked about the mid life crises and maybe even a slight depression. He said he would try the St. Johns Wart.. On his days off we only had one bad moment, but I just tried to let it go in one ear and out the other.

I pinched a nerve or something in my right shoulder blade and was laying with a heating pad all day yesterday.. Its sore today , but at least I'm not in pain like yesterday.

I have things I have to run and do today and I just don't want to. Jeff told me not to , to just stay home so I don't hurt my shoulder again, but I know I need to get it done. The car inspection ran out 10 days ago, the dogs need there heart worm pills 10 days ago and Jeffs truck tags ran out 10 days ago.. So I really should have taken care of all this 10 days ago..

Sorry Laura we won't be at the bday party. I hope yall have a nice visit and the party goes well.

Well thats all I got.. Hope everyone has a great day..

Thanks Tia

I took Tia's advise and looked up mid life crisis and he has a lot of the symptoms.. I sure hope he doesn't fall into the cheating one though..Good news is 80 percent of married people stay married.. This weekend I'm going to pull up the web site again and talk to him about it, because I know me just telling him about it will only piss him off..I really hope it passes quickly or we may have to live in  different houses until it does... He is so mean to me sometimes and vocally abusive.. Not like Doug was ,but he says things that still hurt.. Cole gets his wrath also, and then that causes war between me and Jeff cause that shit isn't happening..So far Jordan is still in the clear..

Laura I want to come to the birthday party and I asked Jeff if he wants to come because he will be off work... He said maybe. I probably won't know for sure until that day sorry I can't give you more time.. I'm thinking about coming without him , but I don't know it depends on his mood that day..

Hope everyone is doing well.

Serious problem

My treadmill is broken.. *sad face*   Jeff said he will tear it apart on his next days off and look at it..He is actually off  Friday and Saturday..So for now its just the eleptical..
Jeff was off Thurs. and Friday this week and I swear every time he is off we spend too much money.. I haven't figured the check book yet , but I'm guessing we spent  $300 and I still haven't gone to the grocery store..We ate out the whole time he was off and he had to buy work boots.. Luckily he will get $80 back from his work  on his boots..
Cole pitched in for groceries again this week, which is very helpful..I mean how am I suppose to save money when Jeff spends it like crazy..
I'm going to the store's today.. I think I will go to HEB instead of WalMart and then run out to Sams.
Yes my life is so exciting.. We did go to the movies Thursday and saw Lawless it was pretty good. Then on Friday we went out to Vonda's and they fixed us lunch.. It was our first time to there new home in Eden and our first time to actually visit with her new boyfriend Brad..He seems nice...

I have a big issue that I need to vent about, so if your not in the mood to hear it stop reading now..

I really don't like my husband right now.. Don't get me wrong I love him, but he is just an angry , hypocritacal man.. I don't think he likes me right now either..First off he is always telling me I need to get out of the house and do stuff, but when I do go out and do stuff.. Like the Roller Derby or lunch with my brother he calls me non stop or makes rude remarks about how nice that must be for me to go eat out with my brother.. Then in traffic OMG he is terrible constantly bitching about how people drive or happen to look his way, yet he doesn't pay attention on his driving and makes mistakes as well.. Then he is so negative about all technoligy, but yet he uses it daily.. Yesterday on the way to Eden he got on his spill about how America sucks, we are so spoiled with all our luxeries.. I had told him about Rondi's new car how it has a camera in the rear view mirror and auto ignition start and how by the press of a button the back door opens up for you.. I thought all these features were fantastic , he said were all lazy and have to easy . Thats whats wrong with us to many distractions.. He then turned off the radio and said just like the radio it distracts you from paying attention while you drive.. So that was it no more radio .. Thank God we were pulling into Eden.. Then on the way home he needed to make a call and was trying to use his phone and kept swerving off the road, I mearly pointed out to Jordan that see lesson learn tychnoligy does distract you when your driving.. Jeff didn't like that comment at all and told Jordan see what a disrespectful wife looks like.. I told him he was just doing what he preached about earlier and wanted to make a point. He of course said you never back me... UGH!!!  That is just a few issues I have with him, but believe me there are lots more.. I don't know what to do, he is just not the same man.. I have tried talking to him to let him know that he is so angry for no reason.. He shouldn't let strangers affect him so much, he shouldn't let technoligy be a problem , but enjoy it he pays for it and uses it, but he just doesn't see my point..

Well thats it , I hope everyone is doing great..