Pancake Syrupe

We had a stupid family argument over pancake syrupe yesterday morning.. I don't know whats going on with this family. Lots of stress maybe. Saturday morning started off really really good if you know what I mean.. Then I got up and started a big breakfast ; smothered potatoes, bacon, eggs, toast, and pancakes. Well I didn't notice that almost all the syrupe was gone so I asked Cole if he would run up to the store and pick us up a bottle. He had only been out of bed for maybe 20 minutes and he was just laying on the couch doing nothing. He told me no , he didn't want to go. So this upsets me because here I am making this big breakfast out of love for my family and he tells me no. So then I go and ask Jeff , he is on the computer and has already showered and dressed. He tells me no he doesn't want to go to ask Cole. So now I'm heart sick cause I do everything for everybody and no one wants to do this for me. It really makes me feel like I'm nothing..So Jeff and Cole get into a heated argument about Cole going to the store. Cole's excuse for not going is he's not hungry so he won't be eating. That still upsets me cause why does that matter if your eating or not I asked you to do something for me. It upsets me more that Jeff is all up in Cole's face about how disrespectful he is to me, but hey didn't he just tell me no too.. Anyway Jeff and Jordan in up going. Jordan went so Jeff wouldn't have to get out of the car. So when they get back Jeff tells Cole he can't have any of the syrupe. So then that was the last straw I blew up at everyone.. So fricken childish. So needless to say Cole didn't eat pancakes and we all ate in silence. Then Cole and I cleaned the kitchen. He took a shower and left and hasn't been home since. I cleaned the carpets, Jeff got on the computer, and Jordan played xbox. Then Jeff and I went to the movies. I'm still pretty heart sick about him telling me no. So it was not a very fun date!