Got all my errands done yesterday and exercised.. Possible showing today so I am fixing to start cleaning. Okay I'm going to vent just a bit so if your not in the mood to here stop reading now..
It has come to my attention that my husband acts like the boys do when I ask him to do things for me.. I saw a glimps of it that time with the pancake syrup, but now I'm starting to see it more often.. He has no problem fixing things that are broke when asked to, but personal request he kinda sighs and or makes up an excuse to not do it.. For example ; last week when he got up for work at 4 I had already taken the puppy out like 3 times and I was sleepy he was up and dressed and she needed to go out again. I asked him if he would take her and he just sighed then said nothing then said let me have her all angy like.. I just blew it off cause I was sleepy.. Then when he brought her back he gave me a quick kiss bye. I knew then he was really pissed that he had to take time to take her outside. Then this morning I had already taken her out at 3 but for some reason she needed to go out again. I know this for sure cause she jumps on my head when she needs to pee. It was about 5:30 Jeff was getting up to go to work I asked him if he would take her for me and he said she just went at 3 you said so she doesn't need to go out. Then left the room.. However I knew better so I took her out. And yes she did have to potty.. I don't ask much of anyone cause I'm home all day so I really am able to do everything and I don't mind. so when I do ask for help why can't I just get it..Okay moving on to another problem. I have noticed at the store Jeff will not make any choices on his own. I have to make all choices. example; we were looking at the alcahol mixers stuff at HEB , he had just said the night before he wanted to get some triple sec for mixed drinks I said cool. At the store there were a couple to choose from he kept asking me which one. I told him I don't know just get one and walked away a little. He didn't get one and we left.. Then every single time he cooks he makes me taste everything before it is served. Beans, sauces, meat.. Why can't he just taste it and decide for himself if it needs something . I know because he is trying to please me and he wants my approval.. I get that, but sometimes it sure would be nice for him to take charge and do it himself.. I don't know what it is with him when it comes to his cooking. He is really good at it and when we eat it we tell him how good it is several times while we are eating. But then after were eating he still asks did you like it.. This last weekend he made chilli and it was really really good. Before I took my first bite he asks well what do you think. I said I haven't ate it yet I just sat down. Then he watched me take my bite and it was great. Really the best chilli I have ever ate. I told him so.. Then after we all ate and all agreed it was great. He still asked me well what did you think about the chilli.. I just looked at him and stood up and said I already told you how I felt about the fucking chilli. and walked out of the room.. I know harsh , but come on enough is enough... He didn't bring it up again and he wasn't mad. Like I said I know he just wants to please me and that is very sweat but sometimes it gets on my nerves... Sorry , I am greatful for him he is a great husband I just needed to vent a little. I'm sure I do things that aggrivate him too.
Ok so mat does the same thing. It's annoying. Ok well he use to. I just told him I was tired of making all the decisions and he was the man and it was his job Pick a place to eat. Pick out crap on your own and deal with it. He is better now. He does however still do the whole cooking thing and always says. Man I am a good cook. Whatever dude. I think it's because I never tell him he does a good job so when I do compliment him he goes crazy and keeps fishing for me cuz he is not use to it. Lol. My thoughts anyways.
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