With everyone venting I feel the need.. Haa Haa
So my venting is pretty stupid, but I want to vent so here goes.
Jeff and I will be married 17 years March 4. In all those years my husband has probably bought me gifts for holidays maybe 5 times. He just doesn't do gifts. In the beginning of our marriage I would always buy him bday, anniv., valentine, christmas, fathers day. I was always a gift giver. Well since he didn't give gifts he had a hard time receiving gifts. Literally he would get pissed off that I bought him something. So I just quit. I no longer buy him anything. Not even a card.. In the beginning of our marriage it used to hurt really bad when he wouldn't buy me gifts on his own for my bday or anniv. or mothers day. Now I'm just used to it, no big deal I would rather buy what I liked , instead of him wasting money on stupid shit. Which brings me to my venting.. Yesterday being valintines day means nothing here, no cards to get ready for school, no cookies , or cupcakes to make for school. Just another day. So when Jeff got home last night he had one of those pr-made baskets of valentines stuff and a stuffed bear for Jordan. I was completly shocked .. This is so not the norm for him. okay so now is the part where yall are going to think I'm a bitch... the basket stuff was so cheesy.. it came with a cute white bear and that was the only thing worth keeping. it had a rose shaped pen, a heart pin cushion, grapefruit hand soap, and apple cinnimon lotion.( I hate apple cinn. anything the scent makes me gag), Of course I didn't dare tell him the truth, I just kissed him and thanked him. but what really gets to me is on Sunday we were all in the living room and I said to everyone if anyone wants to buy me anything for Valintines I would really love some choc. covered strawberries..Jeff got home yesterday about 6:30 so I'm thinking he stopped at Albertsons to buy our gifts. Why would he buy me this crap instead of what I mentioned.. I don't understand him..
I also got a visit from flo.. last visit took 49 days this time 17 , my 28 day schedule is all jacked up.. I need to find me a gyno. and go. its just our insurance is crap and I hate to spend the money. I used to go to family planning but there gone now..
Okay I'm done.. Hope everyone has a great day
I guess that's why they say. It's the thought that counts.
ReplyDeletelol to la! I love my gyno her name is Dr. Adams, she's at Shannon... Anyway, I totally don't think it is stupid. I once got mad cause my coworker asked me what I wanted for my bday and I said Oreos he said "no you don't" I said, "um, yes I do" so he bought me some crap cookies from the bakery... several months later another coworker place a package of oreos on my desk with a note saying "quit your bitching". That was some funny shit!!! I love oreos ;+)
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