Cole getting too big

Well I pissed Jeff off , When I asked him what he wanted to give Cole for his bday , he said nothing.  I told him thats not fair.  So I got Cole a small cake from HEB and a card with money in it.  Jeff didn't know about the money.. I didn't tell him, I didn't keep it from him either . I just didn't bring it up.  So today he asked me how much I gave Cole and I told him the same amount that Jordan got for his bday.  So that is what pissed him off.. He doesn't agree that Cole should get money for his bday anymore.  I disagree.. If we have the money , and I want to give it to them what is the harm in that.  So I guess I will have to get a job next year if I want to give Cole money for his bday. Jeff also through a fit when Cole asked me to take in his boots to be repaired.. I told him I would , its not like I'm busy.  Again Jeff said you don't do things for me, but you jump when Cole asks you to do something.  Which is not true, I do everything for Jeff.. We have had this fight before and when I said I do everything for you , he said you don't wash my coffee mug from work.  So now after I great him at the door, like a good 1950's wife and kiss him , I take his mug and wash it.  So when he again threw in my face that I don't do anything for him , I just walked away.. I mean really what else does the man want from me.. Sometimes I think I should really get a job when Jordan gets a car.. Just so I won't be doing all the stuff the Jeff said I don't do for him , so he will actually see what I do..

I think Jordan is going to come with me on Sunday to the bday party.  I'm looking forward to visiting with everyone.

I don't really have anything else to say.. Hope everyone is well..